Many people I respect greatly and follow (somewhat) religiously, loved that book. And that's great. The topic is very interesting, the idea is unusual and really good. Just not for me. I read the blurb, wanted to start reading and just couldn't. There is a small group of people here that have very mixed feelings about the sexual side of this relationship. Unfortunately, I stumbled upon those reviews first and just can't get over them. In a way, they "spoiled" the book for me before I even started and I know I won't enjoy it with my being hung-up on that issue. So, I'm not going to try, because nobody would win in this situation and I just know better.